“Let God have your life; He can do more with it than you can.” Dwight L. Moody
Trusting God and having faith that he will do what is needed in your life is one of the biggest factors in your relationship with God. There's going to be more than fewer times that things do not go your way and it's going to take patience. Lots and lots of it.
Surrender yourself to the Lord, and wait patiently for him. Psalm 37:7
Let's think about the most selfless and loving story there is in the Bible. Jesus Christ surrendered himself to Gods plans. No questions asked. "Father, everything is possible for you. Please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will, not mine" Mark 14:36 This kind of devotion, trust, and faith does not come easy. You need to fight the urges to do what you want and what you think is best. If God is telling you to let go of something, then it's for your own good.
The solution to all of your problems have the same answers. Let God handle it. Pray about it and leave it in Gods hands. Have faith he will do what is needed in your life. You can overcome anything with Gods power in you. Gods love is continually at work for your highest good.
Be willing to let go and let God take control.
You are a precious, beloved child of God. Hear with reassurance, “You are always with me, and all that is mine is yours” (Luke 15:31)